I mentioned this feeling to my mom today and we talked about an ex-relationship of mine that she mourned back in the day. My whole family loved that boy. Later, as adults, we tried again, but he wasn't the same. He seemed to be, he was good at appearing to be someone that he was not. My mom does not miss him this time. Not at all.
Bay picks sweet, shy boys. They have a touch of goofy, which is a plus, in my book. I wonder what sort of boys Sarah will pick? I have a feeling she will go for goofy, too. It's a quality we value in our family.